1. Teach the child on goal setting. First, you should let your child understand the meaning of goal. Then once he understands what the goal is, tell him to think of the goal he wants to accomplish. Like for example in school, your child wants to get a perfect score in his exams. You should help him define his goal. Like telling him to spend at least 15 to 20 minutes every night studying for every subject before the scheduled exam. Then, a night before the exam, tell him to study at least 30 minutes as exam preparation.  In this way, he will not have a hard time studying for all his subjects.  Tell him also that perseverance is very important in order to achieve his goal.

2. Let the child write down his goal.  Once the child already thinks of his goal, may it be short-term or long-term, tell him to write it down.  In this way, your child will not forget all about it. It will help him realize that goal setting should always be a part of his life, and he has to take it seriously. It should be a part of his personal “to-do list”.

3. Observe what motivates your child. Motivation begins with wanting something. Encourage your child to really think why he wants something, and then you tell him that motivation will help him become successful in his goal. Like for example, your child wants to buy a game boy.  So as a parent, you can tell your child that if he will study hard and get high grades in school, you will buy him a game boy as a reward for all his efforts.  In this way, you can help your child be motivated to do something to make his dream come true.

4. Praise your child in all his attempts to work hard. Positive encouragements, especially from parents that can help boost the ego of the child to work hard. Tell your child that if ever he commits some mistakes, he should not be negative about it.  Instead tell him that committing mistakes will lead him to success. It is from these mistakes that a person will try harder to be successful in his endeavor. As a parent, you should not ever forget to praise your child even how simple his accomplishment is.

5. Let your child make his own choices within the frames of moderate parental guidance. Just like everyone, kids want to make their own choices, may it be good or bad. As a parent, though, you have to let your kid understand on every decision he makes. You have to guide your child gently with encouragement about the goal he wants to accomplish.

6. Emphasize “do your best” to your child. Tell your child that in every work he does, he should put all his best efforts on it. For without hard work, everything that he plans will just be useless. Emphasize to him that he has to take things seriously in order to make his dreams come true. Once he does this, he will experience happiness and contentment with everything he does. This will help him establish a foundation for a good work ethic, something that he will carry throughout his life.

With all these tips, teaching your child on how to work hard will become less difficult and makes you become more fulfilled as a parent especially if your child also cooperates.